Your Reading This Is No Coincidence What Message is the Universe giving to you?
Relationship Problems;
Reaching Agreement, Respect and Happiness
Relationships, relationships! Here at Psychic Pages, we are asked for more psychic readings on relationship problems than on any other subject. Be this a love situation, a friendship or a family relationship, this is clearly an area in all our lives that presents us with challenges.
RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS; TIPS TO HELP
With relationship problems in mind, we bring you 10 well researched steps to resolving issues and achieving better balance and happiness.
1. DOES IT REALLY MATTER WHO WAS RIGHT OR WRONG?
When somebody wrongs you, it's completely normal to feel sad, hurt, angry or bitter. But casting blame, shouting, or refusing to communicate simply causes further issues. At times relationships end because the guilty party simply feels they are not being let in to make amends or feel obliged to sit on their high horse simply because of our reactions, which we may (or may not!) later regret. So don't rush into a reaction. The aim is to heal the situation or end it satisfactorily for both parties.
2 KEEPING YOUR COOL
If you can remain polite, calm and collected, regardless of how the other person reacts, this will usually only go in your favour. This can be hard to achieve, but quite honestly gives you the upper hand.
3 THE RIGHT TIME FOR DISCUSSION
If you feel you have relationship problems, there is no point in trying to discuss a situation if the other person is not paying attention, is upset or angry. Their emotions will often mean they may not have a clear view of what they want to say. Trying to push them may only make it worse. So arrange a mutually convenient time for discussion when they are calm and prepare the other person that this will be the moment where everything can be discussed.
4 TAKE THEIR REACTION FOR WHAT IT TRULY IS
You know what they say about sticks and stones.. Sometimes people say the most awful things, but they don't really mean it. They are simply saying these things out of embarrassment, anger with themselves, with you or even something else that happened in their day. Ask them if they would like some space and give it to them if they say yes.
5 TAKE YOUR TIME
In a difficult situation, rather than reacting angrily or weeping, simply try to take a deep breath and clearly say you need to think about how you feel. Then step away. Take the time you need, be that minutes, hours or days to find out how you really feel. Let any initial anger or sadness pass, so that you can try and look at this situation clearly and see how you feel. With hours and days, our reactions can change.
6 GOOD BODY LANGUAGE
In a discussion, try to sit next to the person rather than opposite them. Facing towards them, with your legs pointed towards them and uncrossed, shows you are open to hearing what they have to say. Leaning back rather than forwards shows you are relaxed and not trying to force your opinion upon them, and actually makes you more desirable to the other person.
7 SAY HOW YOU FEEL
Don't throw accusations at the other person, even if you feel they are in the wrong. This will usually have them clamming up, shouting or leaving! This does not solve our relationship problem, but can instead make it worse! Instead explain how you feel using " I" rather than "you" phrases.
8 RESPECT THE OTHER PERSON
In situations where the other person is in the wrong, let them be in the wrong, but be your own person. Don't be vindictive or use emotions as a weapon. Treat the other person with respect, even if you feel they don't deserve it. In retrospect they will nearly always admire this. You also show you are open to sensible discussion by doing this.
9 REALISE THAT YOU CAN GROW THROUGH CONFLICT
In long-term relationships, we often desire something from our relationships that seems to be the precise factor that they cannot give us. Identifying and discussing these needs are what make a relationship grow, solving relationship problems as they arise. And this is also what make long lasting successful relationships. So don't be afraid to discuss these.
10 BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AS WELL AS TO THE OTHER PERSON
If you cannot be truthful with yourself about your own needs, you cannot expect the other person to give this to you and satisfy your true needs. Sometimes we do not reveal how we truly feel, as we are afraid of the reaction of the other person. So, step by step, learn to be honest about what you really need. Solve your relationship problems step by step.
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